Autism, Video Games and Social Learning, Part 2
- Farrell Cafferata
1/12/2016
Just a quick note about how my son, Dean, who has Autism uses the characters in video games to learn about what it is like to be a different person. The combinations are endless about what you can wear, the armor that protects you and of course, guns and weapons galore!
Another key component is that you are often required to develop more than 1 character or persona in a game. Each of these characters has a major set of differences and abilities. While developing these characters, the gamer must use what weapons or inventory that belongs to that character. For example, a Mage has magical properties and magical weapons such as spells and potions. In order to develop potions as a weapon or a heath enhancer, the gamer must learn the recipe that creates the desired outcome. Often times these are minor quests to pursue the ingredients or other necessary items to create the desired weapon or armor or whatever. The soldier needs different weapons and the guide or assistant needs other things like stealth or multiple languages or some other necessary component to be successful.
Each Character has a set of parameters that they must stick to. Often the female character has an advantage that makes her more desirable to play as her. I have heard a number of squabbles in this group of 12 to 13 year old boys about who is getting to be the girl!
From a social learning standpoint, the ability to take on another’s persona seems pretty important. When my son Quinn was small, he would become very upset if you suggested he was a girl – enraged is more like it. Just the thought of being something other than what he is inside was not ok for him. Dean on the other hand, even with very limited pretending skills that came with his Autism, seemed to be very okay with being someone else for a time. I recognize that pretend play has a huge impact on brain development and specifically on empathy. How many times have you been told, “if you could just walk in my shoes for 1 mile…” this idea of empathy is critical in social learning. Dean has learned that different people bring different skills or abilities to a situation and that even if they are not equal or fair, they are required to complete a mission or an objective.
Not everyone has to participate equally, they just have to participate. Often I have heard him say that if they only have 4 people – they cannot win – they always need a complete team. Dean’s teacher’s remarked how great he is at encouraging others to remember the assignment or desired outcome, to help others on his team or in his group when they seems to be going off course. He does this with kindness and humor. Everyone likes him and wants him to be in their group. He is thoughtful and caring about others and how things are going for them. Do I think he learned that from the game, “Call of Duty”? Um, no. But I do think he has learned how it feels when others refuse to help him or revive him when he has been taken out of the action. He is very attentive to assisting others when they need help. This may be very self serving – since it restores the whole team to a functional unit and if he wants to win, he knows he needs that. Or it could be that he knows how yucky it feels when others don’t help you when you need it.
For me – at this point his motivation is less important than the learned behavior of helping others. Since we know so little about how Autism really affects each individual, this may be as good as it gets for Dean. He may never be truly empathetic, but he can act in empathetic ways. In a social environment, that is more important.
I also have a very fond memory of a terrifying moment in Dean’s life. When he was probably about 3 years old, he had night terrors. Often the only thing that would bring him out of it was watching Thomas on TV. I cannot remember all the details, but at one point – very late at night, he came running into my bedroom, crying and begging me to come and help and these animals really need my help. He was sobbing and he grabbed my arm and began pulling me out of bed. I jumped up – unable to imagine what was happening. He pulled me into the TV room and on the TV was a commercial for the SPCA which showed horrible pictures of abused dogs and cats. He was sobbing and saying over and over that we must help these poor dogs and kitties. It took me and hour to calm him down and explain that sometimes bad people do bad things and that of course we would do what we could to help these poor animals to be in a better place. Dean was always very susceptible to these kinds of commercials and I cursed under my breath every time one came on. He saw the Save the Children commercial too. That was devastating to him. So, maybe for him, he already has a good dose of empathetic capacity.
Just the other day I asked if there were Black guys in the cast of characters he was playing with. He said yes, and showed his version of that character. He looked pretty fierce. He showed me his female character – who is pretty cool looking!
I do NOT appreciate the scantily clad female characters in Video games and how their bare midriff or cleavage is “important” to her character development. I think that is crap! And if I were designing a video game – I would want my armor to protect ALL of my body regardless of gender.
Good thing/bad thing – you can choose from many combinations of elements for garments, weapons, abilities, etc., but you can only choose from what the game provides or whatever the game designer decides is important for the game. Are game designers known for their desire to make social change in the interest of equality and better treatment of all people? No, I don’t think so.
Where do I think game design should go? The types of beings is endless – with aliens, cyborgs, anthropomorphic figures – all of that. What would I add in to be timely in a social change kind of way? I would add in Gay and Bi and Trans characters. I would add in more races of people, maybe even a little bit more socioeconomic factors.
Where do I think social learning and all of that come together? When playing as a character for hours and hours, developing their abilities, creating their armor, improving their skills and developing their relationships, how can you NOT feel like you know this person and like them? How can you not see that they are JUST like you and at the same time – obviously not you. Where do we learn that all beings are created equal in level one and it’s up to us to develop our character as we see fit. How many times do we get to start over with a new character, giving us the opportunity to develop different characteristics just to “try it on”? How often do we end up selecting elements that truly reflect who we are as people and not as the characters we create. How well does a video game give us the opportunity to “be” someone or something else until we learn the fundamental lesson of that being’s existence?
I know that seems like a heavy load for a video game to bear, but that is where social learning comes in – peer activities, social situations where getting your needs met requires that you speak up and advocate for yourself, that you can be anything you want – you choose as you go and develop your Self in a safe environment, you can change your mind and be something else – without giving up everything you have. I think it’s a brilliant way for kids with Autism explore a social environment and make mistakes that do not cost them their school environment or other peers or friends.
Dean plays with his classmates and has created friendships from his old school to his new school classmates. They all play together now and are friends. Based on where we live and where his friends live – he has created a network of friends across the USA – how many other kids with Autism can claim that? Actually, how many kids can claim that – I guess all the ones that create and develop friendships on line through video games.
Final thought – if I can provide my son an opportunity to meet, and challenge his peers in a social environment and have his needs respected and met – how can I deny him his time on line? He is such a nice boy as a result!